The 5 Love Languages

Is your love tank Filled ????

Last last Saturday, Wilson preach and taught about the 5 Love Languages ( by Josh Harnett )

Thanks to sarah Choong, we had all these nice illustrations....

so, the 5 are physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service and gifts.


if you enjoy shaking hands with people, or hugging others in times of crisis or other physical ways ( appropriate ways ) , then your love language is Physical Touch
If you feel hurt when someone else feels weird when you hug them, etc, this confirms that your love language is what's above, if not ....

then it could be Words of Affirmation.

you just love encouraging people with your words

Affirming one another with your words, bible verses, etc.

Adding to that, these words cheer you up and make your day.

then your love language gotta be Words of affirmation.

It also could be acts of service, which is mine too.

You just enjoy serving one another in love... love to you is being practical !

Like Jesus, when he washed the disciples feet.

But be careful, if someone says, "You will do this for me if you love me" ; That's not love, that's manipulation.

then comes gifts.
you just love buying gifts or just getting gifts , whatever the price for people.
It is your expression of love'
Though some may be of no value, you just treasure the gifts that others give to you and treat it as priceless posessions.
Well, there is teh Gift of self and The Gift of presence, which is more realted to the final love language



last, but not the least, Quality Time

You just enjoy giving people your time

By spending quality time with a person, your saying "I Love You"

It's undivided attention, not in front of the TV or at the cinemas

Togetherness makes you feel loved,

then your love language is Quality Time

Well, everyone has their own love language ...

What Is yours ?????

Happy Birthday, Farid !!!!!!

I know it's kinda late

but

HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!!

yeah, yeah! wo ! Wo !

Happy Birthday Farid !!!!

02092009

beautiful numbers....

16 going on 17

we've been classmates for 9 years

9 years ... since Std.2 in hamilton till Form 4 in PFS

sad that this year we could not be in the same class

but being in the same class for 9 years with me shows that you really have a lot of patience and tolerance... hehehhehehe

It's like everytime I sing,

you will tolerate my voice although it reaches to the highest pitch or frequency..

It's just so fun hanging out with you cause you really know how to have fun and joke like crazy !!!!

Like the Shakira... Hips don't lie

Farid, the poser !!!

hahahahhaa

But I just wanna say,

Thank you for being such a wonderful friend all these years,

I treasure and cherich the moments we had

May you be blessed with many blessings in life

in SPM too, all the best

but lastly,

Happy Birthday !!!!!!

The Spotlight !

Can you see the reflection in the water?

Looks like the sun is a spotlight,

That shines on the sea...

Beautiful right ?

Taken at Damai Laut, Perak

From the Swiss Garden Golf Resort and Spa

Leaders Retreat 2009

tinted glass view

( The Gymnasium )

I really don't know what this signifies,

Could be God shining His love on us,

Well, you interprete it yourself

All in all,

What beautiful creation !

Our God is an Amazing God

Awesome God !

Wounded Soldier

Wounded Soldier
Song Written by Dennis Jernigan

Wounded soldier on the ground
Broken; bleeding; beaten down
Feeling defeated; feeling not needed
Alone; abandoned on the battleground

Wounded soldier; faithful friend
Beaten down by those you defend
Your heart once open -- now pierced and broken
Needing help to rise again

Let Me bind up every wound
Let Me comfort every pain
Let Me carry you to a place of rest
Shelter from pouring rain

Let Me hold you -- I can be right where you are
Let Me hold you in the shelter of My heart

When you’re weary from the battle
And all hope just seems so far
Just remember I am with you
Faithfully guarding your heart

While the battle rages on
I will hold you through the night
In the shadow of the cross
I’ll be your champion -- fight your fight

Let Me hold you -- I can be right where you are
Let Me hold you in the shelter of My heart

Wounded soldier -- you’ll rise again
You can trust Me -- I always win
When you face harshness or total darkness
I’m ever watching; faithful to defend

Wounded soldier; faithful one
When you’ve fallen, I’ll help you run
With every testing I’ll bring new resting
And say to you, “My child, well done!”

Let Me bind up every wound
Let Me comfort every pain
Let Me carry you to a place of rest
Shelter from pouring rain

Let Me hold you -- I can be right where you are
Just let Me hold you in the shelter of My heart

When you’re weary from the battle
And all hope just seems so far
Just remember I am with you
Faithfully guarding your heart

When you feel you can’t go on
You be weak, and I’ll be strong
With the power of My strongest love
From My heart’s deepest song

Let Me hold you -- I can be right where you are
Let Me hold you in the shelter of My heart

The Black Egret of No Love- 10 reasons why it's just myths and fables

So, hmmmmm ........

The Tetha Mugama...

a "society" of 4 by Joshua Ooi, Yiu Jho, Patrick Chua and Matthew Elliot

And me.... The Black Egret of no love...

Benedictus Naycintanus.. why naycintanus ???

10 Reasons why the "Tetha Mugama" and the "Black Egret of No Love" are just myths and fables...

1. I'm not Black !

- Though I sing like one and act like one sometimes, I'm still not black ... though I wish I could run like one... well Dream on !!!

2. I do not steal and rob the love of 'our' hearts
- Though I am said to be able to do this, please la.....

3. I do not sing dark songs in A minor
- Only Alicia Keys does that, though I sing her songs sometimes, I usually sing in F or G, Joshua, you should know, when you play the guitar when I lead, it's not A minor ... not dark songs either. I'm not part of any rock band...

4. My legs are not that flabby !
- in the picture, my legs look like.... dunnola..... but still, those legs look WEIRD !!! Well, If I was barbequed, it will definitely be delicious !

5. Nike shoes ???



6. Who is YK ??? btw, YK is not a fish...
- oh.. I know.... Joshua Ooi, would it be ok if I reveal who is this ???
a girl in PFS, time to do some investigation guys... Someone's in love with Y*** K****

7. "The Woman of the Water" is not of the water...
- She looks a little like the fish in the picture... but just because I said that she looks like she has lips that look like a fish ( a thousand apologies ! ).... and that poor girl does not eat seaweed a protista..

8. Buih Cinta can't fight my singing !

- Hahahah ! It's quite ironical here. At the pitch I'm singing in, ( well you guys know I enjoy going higher and higher like Mariah Carey ) ... I don't think Buih Cinta can survive, it will *BURST !* That's why there's only three left ! The woman of teh Water, try to blow more Buih Cinta, so i can burst more...

9. Longitudinal waves ???

- Really, well, I gotta go and study Physics to remember...

10. The Tetha Mugama is the MAIN Cause of Global Warming !!!!

- So down with the Tetha Mugama !!!!!

11. 1 thing for sure is that, I should be appointed as the Black Egret of No Love because I'm the NO. 1 ENEMY of the Tetha Mugama...

* Just for Laughs !*

( ASIAN ) HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL 4

The cast ( due to insufficient excellent actors and actresses, the producers have decided to double up the actors and actresses )


Benedict Weerasena
- Chad Dandicky
- Ben Ben McKessie
- Kelsi Weerasena
- Zeke Deke

Toh Sher Lynn
-Gabriella Lynn
- Sharpay Toh
- Jason Sher

Joshua Ooi Chin Ern
- Troy BoltErn
- Josyan Evans
- Miss Darbus Ooi
- Tiara Chin

A "Jesus Hug"

Jesus Hugs

Have you ever had a "Jesus hug",

Do you know what one feels like?

If you've never had a "Jesus hug",

I pray one day you might.

A "Jesus hug" is different

,As far as hugging goes;

It's a little taste of Heaven,

Here on earth below.

Only those who love the Lord,

Can give a "Jesus hug";

It conveys God's grace and mercy,

And unconditional love.

Those who give out "Jesus hugs"

Always seem to somehow know

Just when you're in need of one

To make your spirit glow.

And if you ever need one

I hope that I will see,

So I can give you a "Jesus hug";

Just like someone did for me.

by Jan McIntosh

So, when was the last time you gave someone a "Jesus Hug" ???? Don't wait any longer !!!

LAME .. Like Totally.....

These photos were taken in Hotel Grand Crystal, Room 321, Alor Setar, Kedah,

At the National Level Debates

LAME Like Totally... was somethimg Joshua drew... nice rite ???

We took this picture after we lost the quaters to Pahang...

Losers !!!

Nelson, our first opposition speaker

Nik Rashid, second opposition speaker

Joshua ( 3rd opposition speaker ) and Nik Rashid

More of the Lamers...

Without me...

We decided not to feel that sad or emo although we lost...

We still had lots of fun !!!
Socialising and making new friends

With Kedahans, Johoreans and many others...

It was a trip to remember

Weird signboards in Thailand...

Memoirs of a Debator I - State Level 09'

Memoirs of a Debator 1 - Pictures from Penang state level 09'

Nicholas Lim (1st speaker), Benedict (2nd speaker) and Nik Rashid (3rd Speaker)

First Round - Oppostition

The speakers...

Feeling anxious...

But thank God ! We won the first round!!!

We moved on to the second round- (semis) in the afternoon where we were the government

The same team spoke as it was the same motion...

This is after the results were announced...

Our hands were held together out of excitement and anxiety..

When we heard that we won, we were so happy !!! I almost cried tears of joy

Nelson Aw, Nik Rashid, Puan Malini, Miss Hani, Benedict, Nicholas Lim, Joshua Ooi

The team after winning the semis...

( mind you, Scott is also in the team, but sadly not in the picture)

We were going to meet our RIVAlS !!! St. George's Girls School in the finals !

St. George's Girls School (Government) and Penang Free School (Opposition)

The Final

Nik Rashid, Benedict, Joshua Ooi

Joshua Ooi looks so excited and Happy !!!!

Yeah !!! The winning team

Penang Free School !!!
I cried so much after the chairspeaker announced that we had won

Tears of Joy kept flowing...

Nik Rashid also got the Best Speaker Award !

A well-deserved one because he debated every round from the zone to the state...and he is only Form 3 !!!

Will be blogging a lot more on debates.... well am missing it so much now.....